What is love? Love is the desire for someone close to be happy, it is the desire for someone you know to succeed.
What is a typical scenario for love?
You "fall" in love with another person then you get on well for a while before things start going down hill. One person leaves or cheats and the other gets hurt. Now the person who leaves obviously is not commiting but the person who got hurt, they should be happy for the other person.
Now in a modern day, relationships don't last, love happens in seconds and people see sex as nothing more but recreation.
Now obviously love should be unconditional, or maybe thats not so obvious. Now you ask how can you love somebody that spends no time with you or doesn't buy you things? Well simply put you should Love a person no matter what their problems are and no matter what they do.
If you set a homing pigeon free it will come back but if you lock it up in a cage forever at any opurtunity it has, it will try and run. Do not place boundaries on your partner. Do not expect things from them. Just let them be free.
Now you may say what about commitment? What about all the other things? Well of course I would agree commitment is important, if you commit to each other freely(notice the key word) then that will make the relationship that much calmer and wonderful. But what else is important? Communication! I think one of the first things that should be established in a relationship is communication, get up there talk to the person. If you communicate you can tell each other how you feel about certain things without getting in a rut.
Nobody loves me what can I do?.... How about love yourself! Im sure if you give yourself the chance you can always love yourself. Of course if you don't love yourself that makes you less attractive to a potential partner for they see you have no stability. Just love yourself, it feels good and is very important for stable mental health.
Now I don't want you to take anything I have said and blow it out of proportion, just take it and understand it on the simplest level. Of course this view I hold may be different to many others but it is the view I find logical.
May you all find happiness.
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